“I’ve
prayed and prayed, and God doesn’t answer.” How many times have I heard that
from frustrated people? I have voiced the same complaint, praying for salvation
for many of those I love, interceding for a friend’s healing, asking to see the
fruit of my writing labors.
I’ve
stood on the edge of a precipice watching Faith and Hope beckon to me with
peaceful smiles from across an abyss. Meanwhile, not far from where I stand, Disappointment
sighs and Resentment scowls. That last one snaps its fingers ordering me to
join them. How am I supposed to avoid so much negativity and lean toward faith’s
glorious promises in the midst of unanswered prayers?
The
Bible instructs us to pray believing. Believe God can save. Believe
God provides. Believe He heals. Believe He will give me the desires of my
heart.
If
I am to pray believing, then I am to be expectant each day. This may be the
day! And if God does not answer this day with “yes,” then I am to carry on
peacefully and joyfully, persisting into tomorrow with the same prayer.
What
about the complaint that I opened with? If God promises to answer our prayers,
why doesn’t He? Is it His fault – does He not keep His promises?
I can think of three possible answers, and I’m sure there are several more.
1. One of God’s promises regarding answered prayers comes
from Psalm 37:4. “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the
desires of your heart.” Ah, there’s a condition attached to that promise. Is
Jesus my delight? Is joy and peace in Christ a way of life for me? Or do I run
to Him with my petitions when I need help but otherwise don’t give Him a whole
lot of thought?
Evaluation Question 1: Do I really delight in God’s presence in my life
every day? If the answer is no, God has no obligation to answer my prayers. He
often does anyway, but He doesn’t have to.
2. God also promises to say yes if you pray in the
name of Jesus (John 14:13-14). That’s not a magic formula. “In
the name of Jesus” is not the equivalent of “Abracadabra.” “In the name of
Jesus” indicates that I know He has all the authority, and I have none. He has
all the wealth and power in the universe and beyond. I am weak and penniless by
eternal standards. When I come to Him with my requests, I must acknowledge that
my own account is worthless.
Evaluation Question 2: Do I realize that I’m asking God to benefit me with funds
from His bank, that I have no riches of my own other than what He chooses to
give me?
3. Give it time, yes, more than you want to give. So many of
our prayers hinge on someone else’s will. God is not going to override
that. Otherwise, humans would be robots. But He does know how to bring
someone around to His way of thinking. Let Him work it out with them.
Evaluation Question #3: Am I willing to give God as much time as He needs to put
everything in place so my prayer will be answered? If the answer is “no,” if
I’m not willing to keep praying–for decades if that’s what it takes--then how
much do I really care?
Don’t
think I’m a pointing a finger at you. All these questions are written in first
person. After thirteen years of prayer for one individual, I get discouraged. After
ten years of writing fiction, I wonder if I was right to follow my passion. I thought
God had encouraged me to go for it. Then I remind myself. God is God, and I am
not.
I
return to my knees, knowing my prayers are the desires of my heart. I delight
in the Lord throughout every day. I recognize His name is more powerful than
all others. I trust Him to put every detail in place.
Maybe today is the day when Jesus says, “Yes.”
Linda Sammaritan writes realistic fiction, mostly for kids
ages ten to fourteen. She is currently working on a middle grade trilogy, World Without Sound, based on her own
experiences growing up with a deaf sister.
Linda had always figured she’d teach middle-graders until
school authorities presented her with a retirement wheelchair at the overripe
age of eighty-five. However, God changed those plans when He gave her a growing
passion for writing fiction. In May of 2016, she blew goodbye kisses to her
students and dedicated her work hours to learning the craft.
A wife, mother of three, grandmother to seven, Linda regales
the youngest grandchildren with “Nona Stories,” tales of her childhood. Maybe
one day those stories will be in picture books!
Where Linda can be found on the web:
www.lindasammaritan.com
www.facebook.com/lindasammaritan
www.twitter.com/LindaSammaritan
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